Today’s reading:
Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love. Ephesians 4:15-16 (ESV)
Even in our Christian lives, arguments, disagreements, and tension-filled conflict will come, but when it does, here are five Biblical principles to consider before we ever open our lips:
1. Listen. Be silent in your mind as well as your mouth. Proverbs 17:27-28
2. Be teachable. Are you in the wrong? If so, how can you respond in humility, grace, and repentance? If you genuinely desire to grow in Christ-likeness, then remember that God uses iron to sharpen iron, and frequently, there will be sparks. Proverbs 27:17
3. Think. Take every thought to obey Christ. We are in a spiritual struggle against an enemy who seeks to divide us. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5
4. Seek unity. We are one body with many parts. Remember, we are one, a unified whole. Seek unity between yourself and your brothers and sisters because we’re playing for the same team.
5. Model love over winning an argument. Always speak the truth in love, because love seeks unity over division, and peace over strife. Ephesians 4:15
Our lives will not be free of controversy until Jesus returns. Until then, let’s remember his words, “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” John 13:35
Read 1 Corinthians 13:1-7 to see how love seeks unity over division.
Pastor Rowena Hall